[Willis]

That is really inconsiderate of your husband, it does seem like he’s doing it purposefully to get a reaction from you. No parent wants to worry where their child is.

I don’t know him, or your relationship, but the fact that he can be so cruel tells me you are better off. You will have your personal differences, but it should never involve the children like that.

I’m doing OK,  he was cheating on me while I was being treated for cancer. I now have the all clear which is a relief. I am over him, but hearing he has a new girlfriend took the wind out of my sails. I have 2 toddlers, a 3 year old and a four year old. My family live in Australia and I work full time so it’s hardwork at the best of times but I realise each day that passes I’m stronger than I thought.

Try to find something for the weekends that interests you, or even some self care. Journal your thoughts, go for a walk, pamper yourself. You have got this xx

[Willis]

Hi Emma, Sorry to hear its a difficult time for you. I felt the same, it’s been a year since my ex cheated on me and we split. For the sake of the children I decided to try and keep things amicable, but for fathers day, my 2 children made cards and I paid for a mug to be painted at their nursery. He got these gifts on the Saturday when he collected the children. It was hard on fathers day to not be around my children and him so I tried to block the day out, he then said a week later how incredibly hurt he was that I didn’t message him. Does he not realise I’m still hurting and trying to process everything. I truly believe things will get easier for you, but it’s about learning how to navigate through this new way of living. Your ex is being totally unreasonable in regards to your son, if you are not able to speak to him about the importance of routine, is there a family member that you could reach out to perhaps? Each day that passes will get easier. Sending hugs.

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