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Thank you for your response.
I have asked more counselling. I’ve reached out to a few organisations and just trying to keep ‘logical’ and one step ahead. But it is hard. Just today more emails telling me it’s all my fault, I just misunderstands things and make it up, despite having it in black and white. His need for respect, admiration and to ‘win’ are dangerous and he once said he will do anything to get our son with him, and I believe him, that anything involves lies and fantasy scenarios to make him look fantastic.
I just need it all to stop. The constant blame and leis and manipulation just take its toll. Especially when you are a single parent to a young child.
I just need it all to stop. But I’m scared going to. Solictor will just make him angrier and that scares me.

[onlyus]

Hi. I own my own home, mortgaged alone. I work 18.5 hours in a reasonably paid job. I get universal credit, with child element, and child tax credits. But I don’t get any housing benefits, or council tax support. Not sure it is helpful but just thought I’d share my situation. J x

[onlyus]

Thank you. Was I in the wrong for posting here? Thanks

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