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12 November 2020 at 7:54 pm #45614
I’m exactly the same him and my daughter were just my everything and I can’t let go,it’s going to kill me seeing him take his stuff and walk out the door I know it will
How long have you been split up for now?
I don’t feel that way I don’t know how to be without him and the thought of him with someone else
Your doing so well to have been with her that long and from such a young age you really are
I talk to them yes but they are very different to me my mum’s incredibly strong so thinks I should just forget about him and move on but I just can’t see that happening12 November 2020 at 7:04 pm #45611
Hi Terry 123
Yesthat’s exactly it like your chest is knotted up,and I could just cry every minute of the day
I’m glad you’ve had a better day today that’s a good step,hopefully a sign of things to come?
Has the pain not got any better at all?even in through the months?
Im not hopeful he says he’ll be happier with this other woman,I would give anything to make it work but I don’t think it’s what he wants anymore and I don’t think it’s worth the heartache of asking and pleading just to be shot down again,would you?12 November 2020 at 1:52 pm #45597
It’s just asking its toll now and really effecting me
Yes that would be good its nice to talk to someone going through the same sort of thing
It’s like a physical pain isnt it that’s just constantly there12 November 2020 at 1:38 pm #45595
We split up for 3 weeks last month that’s when he was seeing her got back together for a week last week and he started things back up with her just this weekend!
Do you find you just can’t switch your head off?
I think it will obviously help but I really don’t want him to go,I’m madly in love with him even with how nasty and cruel he’s being
He tells me all about her like she’s better then me but then he says he might be just doing it to hurt me I’m so lost with it all
It’s so much harder when children are involved isn’t it you can’t just cut them off and I’m in the position of worrying about him taking me daughter round this girl which I don’t want at all it’s agonising12 November 2020 at 1:20 pm #45593
I’m trying to do the same keep busy but I just can’t seem to focus on anything,I haven’t been eating either and sleeping is just out the window
I’ve only got my parents no close friends gave up everything to have my own little family
I’m in the same boat I think of him every second of the day,how can he have moved on from our relationship so easily?
This is my first time on one of these too it’s comforting to know your not the only one going through this12 November 2020 at 12:54 pm #45591
i just seem to constantly be crying,I don’t want to be without him and the thought of him in another relationship already before he’s even left just breaks my heart
I don’t think he’ll be a good co parent she won’t be a priority to him at all which makes things even worse
He’s sending the odd mixed message too,thankyou for your words and sending hugs back x12 November 2020 at 11:45 am #45585
Wow I’m so sorry to hear that that’s such an awful thing for your daughter,I hope shes ok now?
It’s just a constant ache isn’t it?a pain that won’t go away,even though they’ve destroyed you you still miss them
People have said the same to me but I’m struggling to see the light at the end of the tunnel,I’d do anything to have him back and be happy again
It’s just a constant battle