Accusations need evidence no evidence then no worry
Cafcass section 7
Let it be the children how you miss them your memory with them etc not what you or who ever says about each other that will come at the day of court so no evidence no case so dont mention the accusations with no evidence or you are talking and repeating your ex is lies for all to question ok your ex will need to prove all the things said are true why you should go to the doctor I don’t know unless there is evidence
