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    MandyD
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    Hi no this is my first time setting up a group and I love it. Everyone is so lovely and helpful x

    #41992 Report

    MandyD
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    Hi, my 4 year old son has been going to nursery Although coz I’m a keyworker. He loves it’s its his bit of normal in all of this craziness. He is happy and safe the staff remind the kids to wash their hands all of time. He gets to see his friends, and the staff are amazing and no different to normal with him.

    #41990 Report

    MandyD
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    Hi, I had this when I split with my ex husband I had my mum who tried her best but was a bit too pushy and my best friend who was and is happily married so even though she was amazing and always there I felt she oculd never understand working full time while raising a small toddler on your own while still dealing with a controlling ex who wouldn’t let me live even though he had meant someone new. My mum ended up calling my doctors and got me into seeing someone to talk too. She was amazing, she helped me see things clear and helped me see I just needed to have confidence in myself. And to stop worrying about coping as I was. I had a happy little boy who loved me more than anything. I’m now starting a gingerbread group locally and getting out walking my dog and enjoying life with my little one coz it makes me happy. My point being. You can doing everything right and great. Believe in yourself your doing amazing on your own. Slow down and enjoy time with your little ones. Everything will fall into place when your happy and can think properly. If it will help contact your doc and explain you may need to talk to some one outside who doesn’t know you. Loads of hugs. You can do it xx

    #41989 Report

    MandyD
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    Hi ya,

    I can only second the first lady follow your heart. Yes your kids are your life and you want someone who will want to be a part of their life too to some degree as they have a dad and don’t need any other one. It’s fine if you just want someone for fun on your own when you don’t have the kids but if you want someone who can spend time with you and the kids so you can do with them too he may not be the man for you. You may need to have a serious talk with him. You cannot keep splitting yourself in two and being miserable it’s not fair for any of you including him and the kids. I’m still single so can’t know what you are going though but after what you have been through you deserve to be happy, no making do will do. Xx

    #37462 Report

    MandyD
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    Hi ya, yes definitely sounds good to me. Thank you and you. I’m really looking forward to it

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    #36856 Report

    MandyD
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    Thanks Mark. I have filled the link in so hopefully I will hear something soon.

    Thanks I will definitely be in touch if I am unsure of anything.

     

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