Hi Sunflower
Please be cautious about any decisions you are making at the moment. You say there were bad times and the police were called, you were happy to end the relationship and it is only in the last 2vdays you have been emotional and wanting him back. I’m womdering whether the relationship was/is abusive ( emotionally and / or physically) and him being nice to you can be part of the abusive cycle so please be weary and talk it through with someone ( a professional) I have recently been reading alot about cycles and it has really helped my understanding and the emotional rollercoaster involved and jouranalling of incidents can help see the patterns too. … there is also lots now about different abuse and I’ve just viewed the freedom online programme through womens aid which helps people understand healthy and unhealthy abusive relationships and the behaviours involved. Social services seem very clear so wonderiing whether they are concerned about risk and abuse. Have they referred you for help Good, counselling etc?? Sending positive thoughts your way. You can get through this X
