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18 October 2018 at 3:38 pm #16956
I have a child arrangements order which states mum has kids every other weekend,restcof the time kids will live with there father.
Seems your always coming to my rescue ,much appreciated.15 September 2018 at 2:22 pm #15754
Always here for a chat.
Yes it gets extremely lonely as I’ve been doing same for my kids.
I was with my partner for 16 years when she decided to leave and left me with kids.
She met someone else within 4 months knowing were all at home heartbroken. 1 year on and me and kids have our routine and things are slowly on the mend. Everyone say time a great healer and will make you a stronger person but it doesn’t feel like it.
So totally understand your pain and loneliness. Stay strong for the kids your doing a fantastic job.2 September 2018 at 11:32 am #15338
Thanks for your help, Im getting really fed up with her.Now she has her own place the court agreement states she now has them Friday till Monday but unfortunately she has said that she has a permanent job on a Friday night and cant have the kids, I ve made allowance as i know things change and said she can have them from Saturday till Tuesday to make up for the Friday .
Then i find out she was actually out on lash with her friends ???? All i want is her to be honest with me.
She spends more time with our daughter then our son and he ask me why its always my daughter.
Confronted Ex she said cant take both kids out at same time as they want to do different things. Yes i appreciate there is 6 year age gap but it was never an issue before ????.1 September 2018 at 10:26 pm #15314
1 September 2018 at 2:58 pm #15304
- I’m also a single parent to 2 kids happy to chat anytime.Yep it gets lonely but at least you have your kids and expect your doing a fantastic job.
When it’s my weekends to have kids she intrudes by saying things like
“Auntie Jane at nans (where she is living at the moment ) so kids want to go round instead of asking me first and I can’t say no because I become the horrible dad for not allowing them.
Telling kids that they are going to live with her even though court order saying kids live with me which is confusing them.
Sunday when its her weekend I say I would like kids back by 7 as they have school tomorrow and need bath etc .She says I’ll bring them back when I ready which normally ends up 9-9.30.
Telling me don’t care what was agreed I see the kids when I want.
Never bloody ending.Rant over lol20 August 2018 at 4:05 pm #14819
Craved for I mean 😂😂20 August 2018 at 3:53 pm #14818
I joined a few days ago and found out that there are some truly amazing parents on here who have helped me with answer which I have graved for and now feel in contol.
Thank you all much appreciated.19 August 2018 at 10:43 am #14782
What I seem to do now is make myself busy when I’m alone to stop thinking about her.
Believe it or not housework is a god send.Dont think the place has ever looked so tidy until kids come home lol.19 August 2018 at 10:30 am #14781
He had draw and tell at school but wasn’t really helping him.
My son who is 8 still sleeps in my bed every time I get up to use the toilet he thinks I’m going to leave him and he holds my hand in bet.
I’ve tried to get him back to his own bed but he says “Daddy I can’t make you proud of me because I’m scared to sleep in my own bed “Told him I will always be proud of him no matter what he does in life “.
Told my son we need to start getting you back in your own bed even if it’s only for an hour and will take it dy by day bless him.
Told the ex this but she accused me of playing mind games.
Thank you for your help will look into early help contact.18 August 2018 at 9:54 pm #14761
Forgot to mention we were together for 17 years.18 August 2018 at 9:53 pm #14760
I always thought me and my partner would get old together and have our grandchildren constantly around our house when they were old enough.
To me that was all I ever wanted in life. Unfortunately she moved to her parents house saying that I’ve done nothing wrong it’s her who has changed and walked out leaving me with our two children.
She acts like a 20 year old reliving her youth without a care in the world.She was a fantastic person but now is cold and heartless.
I have custody of the children but due to the court agreement I see her most days .I can’t seem to let go even though it’s been years and a half. Just want to cuddle her but I know it’s not me she wants anymore.
I totally understand what your going through and something I think what did I do to deserve all this pain and upset.18 August 2018 at 9:33 pm #14759
All I wanted was for her to help pay towards my son counselling ( maybe 20 quid )which she caused by walking out yet She mocked me but has money to go out with friends to the pub.
I ended up contacting the CMS now she can’t understand why I grassed her up.
Surly our kids should be her priority.
Im totally frustrated why she has become so cold and heartless17 August 2018 at 9:20 pm #14733
Thanks for the information just want everything to be resolved.Dont want her having access to the house for the next 10 years coming and going when she feel like it.Not sure if I can stop her from coming in if her name still on the mortgage.16 August 2018 at 8:04 pm #14677
You have just made me pee myself with laughter your comments about her and a mortgage you have made my night.
thanks for your support much appreciated.16 August 2018 at 7:48 pm #14673
Personally i think they are bias to fathers as was Cafcass ,didn’t seem interested told them i had text from her stating im working tonight etc but all that was said was they will review it in January.