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    itsacrazyworld85
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    Cafcass were the ones that agreed to it being supervised in my home as they knew the children didn’t want to go to his current home, and he has no other place to go with them so I offered my home.. he has to be supervised as he says inappropriate things about me my partner and the situation to the children.. they don’t need to hear his venomous views about me. And manipulates them 

    #38631 Report

    itsacrazyworld85
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    And it continues…. I woke up to a load of texts with him going on how I need to get ready coz my worlds going to come crashing down, and he’s better than me and a letters on it way etc etc, I also found his had set up a tiktok and has been messaging my 10yr old telling him not to tell me and to delete the messages!! He also messaged my mum a load of abuse.. This was all between 1am and 3am I might add, this is all making me feel like absolute crud, I’ve just emailed a solicitor..  Just can’t believe he’s being an underhand snake all he needed to do was be civil and have these kids best interests at heart, but most of the messages were going on about my dad who I don’t know and my current partner… Minds blown..

    #38617 Report

    itsacrazyworld85
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    Thank you for the advise, I feel awful for stopping contact but he’s a manipulative narrcassist pig, he added me to his call list in prison and I accepted it ONLY so he could speak to the kids.. But not once did he call them.. They miss him but I’ve tried explaining to them I’m not being a cow I’m doing it to protect them..  They have short memories and forget just how bloody awful it was when he lived with us.. I honestly don’t think he will bother taking me to court he just wants the arguments with me, he doesnt give a s*** about them kids but how do u explain that to them?.. Its all just rubbish..

    #38566 Report

    itsacrazyworld85
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    Update…. And now he’s out early, he text me today saying can I see the kids.. I said u do realise we are on a lock down and you’ve been mingling with God knows who… Then then abuse continued… I’m a horrible mother I’m trying to control him!!  I feel enough is enough all he had to do was be civil bit it’s an impossible task, and now I find out he was released yest and has been messaging my 12yr old daughter over snap chat!! Telling her not to tell me.. I’m mortified devestated he can’t just be an adult and message me about contact again instead he’s got to carry on being the narrcassist he is and now he’s manipulating my daughter.. Enough enough I think urs time for the courts to decide…

    #37240 Report

    itsacrazyworld85
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    Craigiiboi, no just seems this particular family have poisen running thru their veins male or female…. I would suggest going to mediation/court to see your son.. That is my next step as I don’t want anything to do with any of his family anymore. I’ve been the one to approach his family to be a 3rd party so we need not see each other on hand overs etc as he seems to be unable to control himself and just be vile. It’s all just crap

    #37239 Report

    itsacrazyworld85
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    Thanks Betzy, it’s difficult when you live in close proximity to them all. I know he can’t control what his family does but it’s how he’s painted the picture that’s made them behave like this.. And to be quite honest I dont want that poison around my children! I left him to prevent anymore of this but seems it will still be around them either way..

    #36242 Report

    itsacrazyworld85
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    Sounds similar to my situation just not as much time has passed, my ex won’t initiate mediation so he’s leaving me no choice to go that route as I’m sick to death of the sh*t and abuse Drains the hell out of me.. Forcing someone to put their kids 1st… Draining but yet my kids 12,10 think the sun shine out of his pooper…

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