Sorry to hear about your situation sounds like you are doing amazing thou 🙂
My situation is slightly different, the issue I have with this is that she is not herself so I don’t why she would rule anything out in future, she is also on medication so once she comes off that I don’t know what will happen! Anyway I accept it’s 99% over and am ok with it, she is made in unhappy for years and after the initial upset and grief which hit my hard I feel a different person, I stopped drinking, lost weight etc and generally feel good and the relationship with my kids is amazing(it was great anyway!). I know she is not seeing anyone else and when I bring it up about meeting new people she says she has no interest in it at the moment(maybe in future) and if she is anything she is honest and would tell me the truth.
My issue is that I want to meet someone fairly soon or meet new people not to have fun or anything like that just to get to know similar people in my situation so when I am down rather than messaging my wife I can message someone who understands but I don’t know where to begin, do I try dating apps etc? I am not necessary looking to date if that makes sense just a new connection!
She will sometimes but says the same thing, we haven’t got on for years and she doesn’t find me attractive anymore! She’s had issues over the years and is still on medication for panic attacks and anxiety which she thinks may have been caused by the fact she was unhappy and didn’t know what to do.
I just don’t understand why she won’t see what happens in the future but she says she’s made up her mind and that’s that!
She basically thought i felt exactly the same, that I was unhappy and didn’t want to be with her anymore but although some of that is true i still love her so i feel like i have been dumped!
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