Hi firstly breathe. Secondly Im going through the same only hes the abuser ( domestic abuse) . What are you scared about ? You will be fine and you need to ask yourself why you want a person who cannot deal with this situation . Mine threatens me every day and breaks into my accounts , lies to child maintenance, did not pay council tax for 4 years, wont pay bills etc .
i cannot wait until the divorce s finalised because I will be free from abuse , free to buy food and free to speak to anyone I want without being accused of having an affair or listening to his lies time and time again .
Im disabled and so is my child , we live off non existence benefits as he refuses to pay support , we use food banks and we meet some great people , I would rather be dirt poor than put up with anymore abuse. Yes it’s scary being on your own , but what help is another person , who does not support you .?
do you want a divorce ? This is a question only you can answer .. and be truthful with yourself .As for your ex’s threats …. It’s up to the court to make decisions not your ex .
there are so many people going through what you are going through , you are never alone .
take care
