That is out of order , I had similar where he left one afternoon and the next day he had a new girlfriend. But you know what , put your energy into you and your children. The difference with you and I is he doesn’t see the babies he left behind , he has set up a new family with her children. But you know what since then I’ve gone back to work, bought a new house, a bigger car . Taking the boys to Disney next year and retraining as a criminal law barrister . So all you have to do is get where you want with your life and that is the best feeling . Make a list ….