That’s good you are in contact with your health visitor and she has made a referral to social services they will take it seriously.
Don’t worry about overnights with him being aggressive to your little one he won’t get them, it will likely be supervised visits if you don’t feel comfortable supervising visits it would be at a contact centre.
I found speaking to child law very helpful and it’s free to talk to them.
I have been going through a similar situation, it’s important to keep a record of everything that he does with dates and times,photos/video ring your health visitor and explain what has happened then it will all be logged.
As he is being aggressive it is a safe guarding issue you have every right to stop contact as it is unsafe. you could offer a FaceTime instead as this is a form of contact.
tell him to take you to court with his behaviour it will likely be supervised visits.
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