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Sorry to hear about your situation…. only advice I can give is to try and slow things down, try to get time, keep talking to your partner, avoid rash decisions… Good luck

[Dubes]

I feel your pain. Access and loneliness are a major worry (I’m just about to separate)

I’ve never been away for more than 1 night at a time in 14 years. My wife is more independent.

Talk to her, perhaps write if talking doesn’t work. If you crash, if you can’t be the best father you can then in the end the kids will suffer too… hopefully for them she will respond.

I plan to spend a lot of time in the gym.

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Hi. I’m new to this forum. Am equally lost and confused as my wife of 18 years has recently told me she has not loved me for some time and now wants to separate so she can start a new relationship and find love, passion and happiness (with an old flame who’s already lined up).  We have 2 fantastic girls… 11 and 13. I can’t even think about how we tell them.  I can’t seem to think about a positive future. While my wife is all positive while furtively messaging her intended. I have good days and bad. Don’t sleep much. Can’t eat. No real words of wisdom. This stuff is hard.

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