I applied for the order and used a solicitor. At the first court hearing he represented himself, the judge gave him a 2nd chance to arrange representation for the 2nd hearing, but at the 2nd hearing he didnt have a solicitor and did not even turn up to it – so the order was finalised.
Before the application was even made he hadnt left it weeks without contact with the children. I just dont know whether to pursue child contact in the interests of the children or leave it for him? I dont even know if he wants contact with them.
I am trying to push my emotions aside and not be bitter – i admit, it is difficult.
I just dont know whether to pursue it or wait and see if he bothers to try and sort out contact with the kids.