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I know it’s not nice to see other couples but when your ready you will meet somebody new and make new memory’s.You will get stronger and aslong as you have a good group of people around you it really will get you to the other side.x.

[Busman403]

Hi.sorry your going thru a tough time.anytime you fancy a vent or just to say hi feel free to message.x.

[Busman403]

Hi.sorry your going thru a tough time.if you contact the gingerbread helpline they can give you info that mite help you better or if you just want a chat feel free to message.

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• Hi.At the end of the day it’s your decision and your exs business to sort out and just because the relationship has ended things take time to sort out and I would say to them that you really appreciate what they do but you want to handle things your own time and way.Only you know if you breaking up was the right thing or not.If you are amicable with your ex and can keep it that way then everything else will take care of itself as your parents just need to respect what you want to do.

[Busman403]

Hi.sorry your having to put up with this nonsense as it does sound like controlling behaviour.i would suggest you just live your life as you cant let him dictate your life and if it persists then maybe go to the police for advice and explain to them what’s been happening and see what they say.you can also contact the gingerbread helpline for advice.

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• That’s understandable.you could try talking to him and explain you fully want him to be involved in the babies life but you need your own space as you figure stuff out as your proberly going thru a lot of emotions.you can contact the gingerbread helpline as they can give you advice but as a father myself I know your ex proberly feels leftout but he needs to be patient and things will settle down as I know it’s not nice seeing your ex everyday espeically when you have alot to deal with.good luck.

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Hi.its a difficult situation but unless there was domestic abuse involved is there any other reasons why as even if you don’t want the guy around he is still  the dad and maybe their is some middle ground so he can be involved but in an acceptable way to you.

[Busman403]

Hi.yes as the kids get older things do get better.i would suggest you contact the gingerbread helpline as they can offer advice that may help you better.

[Busman403]

Hi.glad your feeling better as it does take a while to get back to your oldself.Im a single dad with two kids who I have fulltime and i live in leicester so if you ever fancy a chat feel free to message.

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I’m male but I have 2 kids full-time so I pretty much raise them on my own.x.

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Your welcome.things do get better but it takes time.i hope your health is ok and try to care of yourself as your kids need you and its never easy being a single parent but it can also be very rewarding at the same time knowing once you made it thru the other side.x.

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Hi.sorry your going thru a tough time.its better not to be with somebody who is not invested in you or the kids properly than be with somebody that is more of a burden than a help.try to see if you can maybe find local support groups so you can meet new people.you can contact the gingerbread helpline as they can offer info that may help you or if you just want a chat feel free to message.

[Busman403]

Hi.sorry your going thru a tough time.your hurt at the moment and that causes alot of emotions.fixing yourself takes time and things do settle down after a while but it’s a process but if you Go on Google it can give lots of advice in dealing with break ups and believe me your not alone with how your feeling.Try to get a few friends who you trust as a support network is important but look at the new job opportunities as a chance to reset your life.having your own home is a real plus as it will give you security going forward.if you want a chat anytime feel free to message.

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Hi.you can just claim online by setting up an account and answer the questions.if you live on your own you can also claim 25% off council tax.it mite also be worthwhile contacting the gingerbread helpline as they can give helpful info out also.

[Busman403]

Hi.sorry your going thru a tough time.you can apply for uc as that will give you some of your own money again.i would suggest contacting the gingerbread helpline for proper guidance.have you got family who you could stay with for a while?if your not married and he owns the house then legally it is his to do with as he wants pretty much.

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