Thanks everyone
I have tried to explain my concerns but quite honestly communication is limited.
He arranges contact direct with our 10 year old which i find extremely frustrating as I don’t think its the correct way, she shouldn’t have that put on her, like a go between. I mean if we can’t even communicate about arrangements then what hope is there.
Ive been very good and bit my lip on a lot of things as I’m just thinking of our daughter but he offers no help with school holidays, doesn’t help with her extra curricular activties or school trips and yet wants all the praise, when in reality I was happy to agree a maintenance payment lower than CMS has advised because i prefer it that he spends time with her than pays me all the time, I’d much rather have help with the harder parts of bringing up a child, but the lack of communication is frustrating to say the least.
@hades he is 40 next month and has 3 children but only sees ours and he does not support the other 2 at all. We were together 8 years but to be honest i should of left many many years before i did, I was just isolated and not sure how i could plus had guilt about our daughter. There is still alot of hurt there on my side but my priority is our daughter and i don’t want her getting hurt again. (emotionally)
