[steve3334]

hi,

if you haven’t done so, I think court action is most suitable approach for you.

[steve3334]

hi,

sorry your having a tought time.

I am very surprised the courts are making arrangements for a 19 year old. did you have the court hearing?

[steve3334]

hi,

hope the fact finding goes well and courts act in childs best interests. if you need advice, feel free to message me.

[steve3334]

hi,

could it be that your child simply does not like his dads girlfriend and her daughter?

All I can suggest is keep seeking support from childrens services and the school.

[steve3334]

hi,

as a devoted single dad, I find it very disappointing when other dads don’t bother to see their kids. most dads I come across are the ones that have to fight for access through the courts.

If he sends you more holiday pictures, I would ig nore/delete them. or politely  ask him to not send any.

[steve3334]

Hi, would suggest agree on a regular arrangement like dad sees child friday-sunday every other weekend, possibly other days if can manage? Seems like interference from grandmother. They have less rights than parents. If she wants to take it to court, court needs tovgive permission first

[steve3334]

hi, if she refuses to close CMS case, then you are stuck with it am afraid.

[steve3334]

hi,

I would suggest that it’s better to make arrangements without returning to court. if proposed arrangements benefit the child, then you can try it out.

[steve3334]

hi, silversurfer123

hope your well. how are things now?

[steve3334]

hi,

sorry to hear this. if theres a court order in place and ex is breaching it, he can consider applying for enforcement.  or if you just want to change arrangements, can apply to vary existing order, or apply for child arrangements order. feel free to message me for advice.

[steve3334]

hi, hope your well. do you have any child arrangements in place at the moment, how is that going?

[steve3334]

hi, how did hearing go?

[steve3334]

hi,

in mediation you could propose different arrangements. if you look online there are 50/50 parenting schedules like 2-2-3, 2 days on, 2 days off, and alternate weekends etc

[steve3334]

you may be able to claim child benefit, contact child benefit office.

[steve3334]

perhaps one day a child will be curious and want to see their birth certificate. and I would not want to be that parent that has to explain why their fathers name is not on it.

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