Thank you, the amount of times I questioned what I was doing was crazy. But my girl had already experienced way too much for such a young child. The treading on egg shells every payday was really draining the pair of us.
I thought about that but with energy bills going up it will be a case of heating or eating for us. I’ve already invested in blankets and hot water bottles.
I know over time I will adjust and manage to juggle everything with putting time with Mia at the very top. But it’s just seems so far away.
I’m in council housing and trying to downsize but my sister has thrown us a curve ball and might be coming to live with us. She’s a grown up child herself and is quite dependant on my parents as it is. The extra income would be amazing, but really concerned if this is the right move for me and Mia.
I’ve previously suffered with anxiety and my biggest problem was never being able to say no to other peoples problems. So I’m quite good at taking on the world and burning myself out at the same time.