[Graceful_Swan]

Yes definitely, you only need his permission or his agreement I should say for changing the schools; not primary to secondary as that would have to change anyway, but primary to primary or secondary to secondary.

So if I were you if move house first and then once your settled if you need to send him an email and ask for his agreement to change the children’s school. You never know he may co operate!

Does he own any of the house you live in, like a mesher order or anything like that?

[Graceful_Swan]

Do you have legal representation? If so ask them?

Do you have a child arrangement order in place? If so you’d need to apply to the courts to vary it?

In my opinion and its just what I’d do, I’d move house and keep them at the current school until your moved and settled. Then move their schools as you’ll have the fact that you have moved to that area as a good reason aswell as everything else you have said that sounds reasonable to me.

[Graceful_Swan]

Hi, if your wanting to change the children’s school you do need permission. You moving house won’t be a problem as you can still maintain the CAO and you have good reasons being the children’s sleep.

How much of a commute would it be to the children’s school if you move house but keep them at the same school?

[Graceful_Swan]

If she is moving his school she needs to make a variation to the child arrangements order as you could contact the court and ask that the children be returned to there current address. You need to give permission for the children to move schools basically.

[Graceful_Swan]

Can you learn to drive? Sorry if there is a reason you can’t I just thought I’d ask.

[Graceful_Swan]

I’m pretty sure even if your living together, if your living as seperate people eg you don’t share ANYTHING including meals, a room, shopping etc you can claim UC as a single person. I would call them to check.

[Graceful_Swan]

Same position too although I can’t get a mortgage at the moment as I don’t work enough but that’s because I have a 3 and 5 year old and no support to help with childcare.

I have appointed a direct access barrister as I don’t have much spare money.

So many people are in this position and alot of them end up relocating. I have actually applied to relocate with the children and 1 of the many reasons for that is because I won’t be able to afford to re house around here, I’d need 100% of the equity.

 

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