Thank you Andrew and “Never give up”, and thank you both for responding so promtly.
I would have replied earlier but as you may well imagine “life” has been tough to say the least.
There is a phrase thats all to commonly used in “time is a healer”.. From my experience I do not agree with this.
All time does is allow you to manage any given situation better. For me, at least, it heals nothing.
So my quest to manage this awful situation continues.
Thank you both for your advice and Im sorry to hear of your sadness too Andrew. I will be in touch.
Many thanks
G