No problem jewels. We are or shall I say. I was like that as a teenager. But gradually after everything has calmed down I calmed down too. I’m having a nice chilled night. What about yourself?
Me personally and as a volunteer and a football coach. Maybe ask your lad who if anyone he would like to talk too. And tell him it will be confidential. I had a few lads come to me for a chat etc as I always tell them I was their age once. My lad speaks to another coach at the club as me and him are so a like and clash. But I know if it was really bad the guy would tell me or tell me to keep a eye on him. Try not using the words counsellor and tell him that it will do him good to have a chat to another male and listen to experience. I tell my lads that you can’t kid a kidder and nothing get past us. I hope he comes round.
Yes we all need a Cinderella day as how will the house run and be organised? You will do but don’t beat yourself up or let the feeling build up as you will nlo your mind and be no good to anyone. Yeah all good with me, me and my lad been fishing and I’m teaching him so he can go with his mates and that. Bet your dog is a softy hahaha x
Hi Piglett. You will smash it and everything will fall into place. I’m a single dad and I call my Sundays “Cinderella” day as it’s a day I do all the house work and get organised for the wee hahahaha. I hope your ok and are having a nice Friday? X
Good evening mamaduck. I hope your ok and welcome to the group/forum. I really hope you take your time and things get better for you. Never rush it feel alone. X
Thats what I was thinking. As when I went to court. I got funding and help straight away. Was this a sudden thing or was you given notice? Does the notice give the dad more access? If you have any worries or concerns maybe speak to a family solicitor you used on the first order.
I’m a single dad at the grand old age of 40 lol. I’m from Manchester. This is a very good group and everyone is friendly. You been up to much this weekend? X
Your very welcome and all I can say is that it can be stressful and sometimes emtional rollacoaster. But in the end it’s worth it. Hope your having nice week and everything is ok? Xx
Welcome girlmum. I have been down this road with my son and went to court etc. He has lived with me for 6 years now. It’s very difficult and I’m assuming the father is on the child birth certificate? The best advice I can give you is seek a family solicitor and have as much information and everdice you can get. It’s a long process and can be very hard. But if this is what you want and think is the best for your child, then start the process and seek advice from a professional. I hope this helps and if you need any more help etc please feel free to message me. X
Welcome Bridget and I hope your ok? Sorry to hear about the situation your in. Everything takes time and you do what is best for you. But it all works out in the end xx
