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1 July 2021 at 2:01 am #56044
If I were you, I wouldn’t let either kid go by themselves without me (unless I really needed a break!)
Definitely not unreasonable on your part so don’t feel guilty on top!1 July 2021 at 1:56 am #56043
Any similar initiative for the North West? 🙂1 July 2021 at 1:54 am #56041
All the very best for your big day tomorrow JayJay!
The father of your baby does sound like a very self-absorbed person who wouldn’t have been much use in a relationship anyway, so you won’t miss him much! What is hard now is that you are still in love. That doesn’t mean though that he is up for this massive task and it also doesn’t mean at all that you will feel like that for him forever. Focus on your baby and yourself!
I do have an equally sad story from 10 years ago (got pregnant with a new boyfriend, he dumped me, I tried to keep the baby but went for an abortion in the end but was still in love with the BF) and a different but equally sad story from nowadays (got pregnant with a committed boyfriend, had a lovely pregnancy in a couple, he turned my life into hell from the day I came back from hospital, I dumped him 5 very long years later). The only constant is the baby involved in each case. I love having my son now, I wonder what my other baby would have been, I don’t want or respect either of the fathers!
Take care and good luck tomorrow!1 July 2021 at 1:11 am #56039
Great to meet you! Running a business AND looking after 3 kids, you are definitely superwoman! I feel like I have no right to complain with just 1 kid!1 July 2021 at 1:09 am #56038
So sorry to hear about your troubles Rebena, but also very happy to read you have escaped!
Hopefully the courts will sort out the house for you and your daughter very soon!1 July 2021 at 1:02 am #56037
Tell us more about the tours and events you organise Si!1 July 2021 at 1:01 am #56036
Sorry for the late reaction. I have been buried in work deadlines (plus all the other usual stuff!)
Hope you are well.
Where are you based?10 June 2021 at 7:31 pm #55164
That camping meetup sounds excellent!3 June 2021 at 11:50 pm #54884
I’ve messaged you but just think that your Number 1 should be YOU! Especially if you haven’t got any other support!3 June 2021 at 11:39 pm #54882
Really sorry to hear you feel lonely but even more sorry to hear you feel ashamed 🙁3 June 2021 at 11:38 pm #54881
I second what everyone here said! Do not waste invaluable time and energy checking out what he posts and – even worse!- what other people post on his page!!
Enjoy the times where your ex is “nice” to you (it’s better not to be at war!) but don’t take it as a sign that he’s changed his mind. Even if he had, would you want him back after all that ?
Take care and unfriend him 🙂3 June 2021 at 11:26 pm #54880
I’m so sorry to read about your accidental adventure!!
It’s great you are reaching out for support!
I have messaged you.
Take care!3 June 2021 at 11:22 pm #54878
Really sorry to hear about your dilemma.
Just to say that you should not just keep the baby just in case he comes back. You should do it for YOU!
I have messaged you.
All the best3 June 2021 at 11:05 pm #54875
Pleased to meet you!
Why would you be possibly bothering me! 🙂2 June 2021 at 5:31 pm #54819
I’m sorry this came as a shock to you.
The process itself is not really hard, unless one of the partners doesn’t want it, in which case it can difficult, expensive and long.
A very good guide is from Advice Now.
All the very best to you and your children
A survival guide to divorce or dissolution of a civil partnership