I’m a full time single dad of one. And I also have the same issues. Unfortunately the world we live in is very fickle. My profile on a dating site also include that i am a parent and yet it appears to be missed when they check out my profile. Once I bring my kid up bang they are gone.
Hi with adoption the new parents can decide if they want yo make contact or not. But also depends on what was written in the adoption paperwork. You as a distant relative have no rights at all. The birth parents can ask the adoption team regarding the contact letters and if it’s possible to make actual contact. But there is nothing stopping you from trying. They may make contact with the adoption family letting them know that a family member is asking after them. However the 2 girls my not want to make contact with you for reasons of their own.
At 18 you are classed as an adult and the girls once reaching this age may want or not to make contact. You may find that they wait until both are 18 or above as there is 3 years between them. But be prepared that they may not want to make contact.
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