[Andrew uk]

Hi Cat Mum,

I hope you have a good weekend and do something nice for you.

🙂

 

 

[Andrew uk]

Small and chilled sounds lovely. My kids are with their mum so I’m going to my mums.

Lakes are lovely. Hills – i used to complain about them as a child but now i appreciate them! Lol

[Andrew uk]

Spirituality? Tell me more.

[Andrew uk]

Hello! Let me know if you want to chat.

Hiking? Where do you go? Always like a good walk. I’m originally a northerner so i love the Lakes.

Do you do anything for Christmas?

Dad of two here. One of each.

 

 

 

[Andrew uk]

Find that Christmas radio station that plays annoying wall-to-wall Christmas songs. Dance to them with your LO.

[Andrew uk]

Go and see Santa. You might need to book ahead.

Local Christmas lights…?

Depends on how much money you have.

Baking, winter walks, plenty of things can still be done in winter.

TV – there is so much on over Christmas.

Make your own Christmas traditions. For example, leaving things out for Santa. Might be too late to write him a letter but you might still have time.

I read “The night before Christmas” on Christmas Eve each year.

Together plan meals that you will eat and things you will do.

Do you have any family? That mighg be one option.

I hope, and know, you will have a lovely time.

[Andrew uk]

You are doing an amazing job. It’s tough. One step at a time. It does feel like hell but you are doing better than you think. Also, you are not the only one to be going through things like this.

Do you have support from family or friends? You might need to reach out. Here to chat if you want.

Stay strong. If you can, treat yourself to something nice. Pamper yourself or TV or get out into the fresh air.

[Andrew uk]

I am going to (try) disagree. Court said that this is what i should do.

[Andrew uk]

That’s kind of you. Thanks. Yes it’s coming from my ex. It’s been going on for literally years! I have the support of my family. It’s long and i didn’t think it would be like this!

[Andrew uk]

Many thanks for your reply. It helped. 🙂

[Andrew uk]

Thankyou

[Andrew uk]

Could this run to a potential Final Hearing next year?

[Andrew uk]

I don’t have a solicitor.

[Andrew uk]

Thank-you for the advice.

 

The FFH was in April.

The Cafcass report was August.

The DRA is September.

The Final Hearing is October.

[Andrew uk]

I’m so sorry. I have made use of a McKenzie Friend for advice, much cheaper than a solicitor. You need some proper advice. My ex left in June 2020 and took my 2. I haven’t seen them properly since. Take out a Prohibited Steps Order to stop her from changing their schools and other things. I am living in the family home and it’s not easy. I am comforted by the fact that i will see them again. It is going through court at the moment. It takes forever! Avoid court if you can! Message me if you want. I don’t have much advice but a listening-ear is good.

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