Thank you guys all for your comments, I have only just been able to see them. Since I posted this, things have gotten worse. In response to contact arrangements, there are non, I see my Daughter as and when my ex my decides, which is few and far between, any time I’m allowed with my Daughter is dictated by my ex and she insists on being there, which is obviously no good for my feelings towards her and thus I cannot enjoy the little time I have with Mt Daughter. They spend day after day with him, day trips, BBQ’s staying at his house all the time, he is in much better position in life than me and thus can offer them a life that I simple can’t. My ex stated to me she wants me her and our Daughter to spend some Family time together but is totally against any kind of new relationship but instead wants to enjoy the time I have with my Daughter with us and then to and enjoy her new life with her new partner as well. I had wanted to take my Daughter to a certain place this week but the day I’m seeing the place is closed so I asked if we could change days and my ex said no because the day I want to change to her new partner has a dart tournament and he needs her there to help him focus, that is why I can’t see my Daughter. My ex brought my Daughter over for an hour on Fathers Day, I wasn’t allowed any longer because her new partner was waiting on a near by car park and she didn’t want to leave him waiting. There is nothing I can offer my Daughter that he can’t offer her and more. She is 2, if I go now, she will not know any different other than my exs new partner is her Dad. There is much more but this is already very long winded!
Ird95 you sound in a worse situation than me, I’d love to chat.
