He sounds vile.
Also – be wary of leaving the house as it can potentially damage you financially because you’ll still be legally responsible for paying for it. He should leave! How dare you kick you out while you’re pregnant. I’m sorry but I feel so much secondary anger here. What an awful man!
I was with my childrens father for 13 years and there was a major red flag incident n in my first pregnancy that I wish to god I’d paid attention to and left him then. It would have saved me over a decade of misery.
You can absolutely do this without him. Being a lone parent is better then trying to parent in a relationship with someone who will make you feel bad about yourself, neglect you, neglect your children and generally get in your way. Me and my children are far happier now it’s just us. I get to do it how I want to and no one is there chipping away at me.
