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Hi Hope your ok. Dont live close but here if you  wanted to chat i have 4 children age from 15 to 5 . Stay strong and safe

 

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Thankyou  i contacted  doctors  today who said 3 mths ago it was all changed and has to be down to the school to refer him which school are now saying he has been there long enough for them to truly see how bad things are. Going to contact health visitor 1st thing Monday morning and see what they say didnt even know he still had one until he is 6 years old.  Ex has msgd  saying he didnt threaten me he just said it   when your stood at someone’s  door and your children are stood there trying to explain they dont want to see you and you come out with if you dont let me see the kids ill take you to court with the tone of voice that’s a threat.  Ive explained this weekend is just me and the kids that we have enough going on with trying to sort the best out for the youngest  and that he isnt to come to the house anymore as this is the kids safe place not somewere he can just turn up unannounced with threats. So will have to see what happens. I feel so drained today but then i look at these beautiful babies and my heart just melts. I have no idea how any man let alone there Dad could ever treat these like he is doing. There my whole world xxx… If there is anyway for anyone on here to keep in contact by WhatsApp  id be more than happy to have a friend  😊  xxx

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Thankyou so much for your reply I honestly  today thought my heart  was going to break 5 year old little boy has always been hyper some would say different to me hes just his normal happy self even though your heart always aches with the knowledge he’s a little  different from other children his age school have now picked this up and agree he is showing autism  signs . Breaks my heart as ive been saying this for so long were ex would always just say he was naughty and doesnt understand Even today going to school just the change from his big coat to his jacket was a total meltdown for him. Any thing different out of his normal daily routine brings on a meltdown but i still have the narcissist ex saying he should be allowed to take him out even though he would and has never watched him properly when he was living in the same house which caused him accidents which didnt need to happen as he doesnt understand danger which ex knows jusy never listens.  Ex has never once watched the children all together by himself the most he has done is take 15 year and 10 year old skate park on his own which even only this morning my 10 year old said his dad always stayed in the car on his phone while his older brother 15 was left in his care. But ex would state  thats being a good dad as he took them. Seriously cant win with him he always has to be right have the last word Has to be in control and i feel it will never end. Im there mum after every  birth last 3 c sections  last one my stomach was an open wound for 3 mths and had to have a nurse change the dressing every day He was back at work the next day leaving me to look after the other children as well as a newborn cook clean etc.  I jusy wish someone would knock at the door and say there here to help us through this .

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