I am going through the same. Any advice would be grateful.
I have a 2 year old which i single handly raised with no support from him. He complains about being neglected.
We recently agreed to divorce and are still in the same house. Neither of us wants to sell the house before the current mortgage fixed rate ends, and so we could potentially be cohabitating for a long time. He refuses to move so I have agreed that I will move whenever I am ready, provided that he buys out share. We have agreed that our child will live with me and he will have as much access to her as he wants. It will likely that when i move out, I will stay in the local area as none of our family is nearby and I am scared to move to a new area where I will have no support or friends. I work full time.
I am scared and confused and is now starting to doubt my decision to divorce. I know he is selfish and uncaring, but I think I will regret it if we don’t try marriage counseling first. He said no first but has agreed so long as it’s clear we are separated and he has the freedom to explore other people. He said he is in the twilight zone where he needs to see if there is someone else out there who is more compatible with him. I am so torne – I have tried to be strong throughout this and was so convinced that divorce is the right decision. I have started to have doubts, hence I reached out to try and work things out with him. I even agreed to his condition – am I wasting my time? Am I better off just splitting from him once and for all? Unfortunately we would still need to see each other as we share a child.
