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Talk to the school they should be really helpful at putting you in touch with relevant help etc

they may even offer the kids someone to talk to in the school setting

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Hi

I don’t come on here much, not because I don’t want to but because I have a very challenging 3 year old and if I get the chance to rest, I’m done lol

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Keep on to the CMS, CMS have new powers since this year and should be using them the Child Maintenance Act 2023  and Domestic Violence Act 2023 which recognises witholding maintenance as financial abuse

look it up

on the gov website and if CMS don’t act go see your local MP because they should be using these powers

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Oh bless her

late reply here

my daughter is having issues about the ex, her school have been great, they offered her counselling which uas helped a lot

do you think it’s worth talking to her school?

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Feel free to message me any time

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Same here too, my child is 8 and her dad decided no contact after a few months, his mum and dad continued contact until she was 6 then they decided to stop as well because their support upset him!

My child asks sometimes about him, I just say he lives too far away from us

but she’s autistic so no idea of distance anyway

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You could always get advice from. Mckenzie Friend, they are really helpful in family law and cost a fraction of a solicitor

my one was amazing, in my living with order

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Quite good I would think seeing as you have extra time available compared to her

lots of luck

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Hats off to the dads wanting to spend as much time as possible with their kids, so nice to see

I wish my ex would see my kid but nope, 8 years old and not seen him since he decided no more contact at 5 months old

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Hope you are doing ok and I am only a message away if you need to vent

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The lonliness is the worse

happy to chat to any of you

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Good for you Gnasher82

proves you care x

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This happened to me, he was never interested and never will be

sometimes its better for all concerned

my child is now 8 and never asks about her dad

she has enough love from people who want to be in her life

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Hi NM1986

your kids just need you and hopefully a de-stressed you There is so much fun in making up stories or cheap arts and crafts, hopefully the weather will stay nice so you can get outside

A decent life does not have to mean financially although I do understand your frustration in that

I get stressed very easily lately and not really found a way to get out of it apart from just trying to get on with things

Its so hard, it really is, I wish I had wiser words for you

 

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Hi Emmanewlife

my 8 yo has autism, so a long way from college

I hope you he gets all he wants from the experience it sounds amazing

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