[rplion1]

Hi KC2022,

 

My story is parallel to yours except it was my wife who eventually fell out of love with me and adamant on us moving our own way. We argued loads and have 2 beautiful girls which were witnesses to what seem like never ending arguments. Its been 2 years since we officially split but i am sure she fell out of love way before then. I guess she was holding on for the kids sake. The only advice i can give you is… move on… but have some time on your own. Do things that you wouldn’t or couldn’t do whilst being together as a family. Having some time to yourself will make you stronger and you will eventually realise that it was for the best. I personally wouldn’t want to be with someone i didn’t love, however, i do see your point having a child together. You can still have a life on your own. My children have come to terms with our split and in fact become stronger girls. I wish you all the best of luck.

[rplion1]

Remember you too are important and must take that into consideration. It shouldn’t  all be about him. From my perspective, don’t take his threats and emotional behaviour to heart. You need to get away from that scene and build yourself into a stronger person. I’m no expert but I have learnt and can say I’ve bettered myself. I want you too. We all have choices in life but it’s how  we choose to direct them. You CAN do this, without a doubt and I’m sure a few years down the line you’ll look back and think why you se didn’t do this earlier. It’s because we become stronger and grow in confidence. Hence, the reason why I said time is a great healer.

[rplion1]

Hi Onlyus,

 

such a shame to hear about your ex partner. I’m hoping his  views will change. Can you both not sit down and have a mutual agreement as to how to go forward. Surely there must be some reasoning. I’m glad you’ve found other platforms. Rememb

[rplion1]

Hi Onlyus,

I was saddened to hear your story and suicidal thoughts. Please don’t hate me when i say this but time is a great healer. I will never know what you went through emotionally but i can say that your time will pass.

I split with my wife and kids 2 years now and see my children over the weekend which is never enough and cry when either i have to drop them home on a Sunday evening or they are not around especially when I’ve had them over the half terms. Please, please please get some professional help and help yourself. You should not have to give your life up for anyone. Please bare in mind your child who desperately relies on his mother. My world fell apart when i had to leave home. Luckily i had a good support network. Unfortunately, it has led to a higher intake of alcohol which i know is not the answer but i can assure you it helps me. Please be safe, healthy and happiness will come i promise you. I would recommend you do some meditation and keep busy as much as you can. This has helped me. Please do stay in contact, there are people and sites like this who do care and express your opinions, don’t suppress it. Get some counselling.

 

God bless you.

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