Hi array
You should never put up with emotional abuse it is not right what he doing to you
You got make decision to leave and there is help for you out there for what your going through you can call idva or refuge on website they help you with everything about emotional abuse.
I understand because was with my ex wife to long suffered emotional abuse and physical abuse got out in end with help
If you need talk I’m here if you do.
First step you made is letting people no on here how you feel