Hi Olivia, Also single with 3 kids 6 to 14 and same as you accept for one very good friend. He dosnt live local and in the same situation as yourself. One idea I did come up with was to go on holiday with a distant friend who has a 14 year old thought being they will be off playing ect leaving 2 children and 2 adults to share the load. Hope this helps and you find someone to share your burden soon.