Thanks Yamaha. It seems so weird to me that someone earning 90k isn’t expected to contribute more – he can clearly afford things I cannot afford. I feel he is trying to prove a point and make me suffer but the only people who will suffer is the kids because I am going to struggle.
If we had been married there would be a settlement and some of that money would of course have helped me towards the kids costs (he has a pension of £750k as well). I will definitely be getting Child benefit and already have my eligibility letter from CMS so once I move out I can claim it.