[Northernmumma]

This post is basically me, married for 14 years & 4 kids. Haven’t always seen eye to eye and we were constantly arguing so it just seemed like an obvious thing to do. He’s definitely moved on and seems to have his shit together more than me. It’s got me thinking all sorts like did he really love me anyway etc. it’s so hard thinking about the future, I’m petrified, alone and worried about the future. I just can’t see past the next day at the minute & I don’t think I would feel this way. I’m so confused

[Northernmumma]

This is exactly how I feel, it’s a strange feeling. It’s difficult to see how I won’t feel like this forever as it’s easy to dwell on things in the present. We are obviously not alone as it’s happening to others all the time, feel free to message me as I too am a lonely mother of 4 !!

[Northernmumma]

It was a personal loan that I took out as I could get the best rate at the time. The cars are registered individually in both of our names. The loan has at least another 4 years left which I’ll end up paying and it may ultimately effect my ability to pay the mortgage on my own if he wants to move on like he is suggesting

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