I am so sorry to be reading this thread. But in an odd way feel comforted. I have asked my husband to leave today and spend some time at his parents, then we will work out how to share the house for the time being and still spend lots of time with our children, aged 4, 6, and 7. We have been together for over 11 years, married for 8. It’s been a bumpy road as he has been battling depression, and 3 years ago sustained a brain injury. Up until December, we had a very close bond and the difficulties were worth it. But he has since withdrawn and lost the bond, and he has felt unsure about his feelings for me. Yesterday, at my family party, he behaved like a teenager, very moody and not speaking to anybody, being very rude, and I finally accepted that this is the end. There is no way back and I know it is the right thing. But I am completely devastated, gutted for our children. I hope we are able to be kind to one another through this…
