[Niya]

Dear Dreamclean

I completely empathise with you . but do not feel low. Be positive.  Things might feel hard but will get easier with time . You are strong and have done well so far. Embrace life as it comes . Join the  Gingerbread digital group of children with additional needs (link is given above). you can find people from different walks of life going through the same phase , make lots of friends . feel free to message  .

[Niya]

Hi Newlife 2021

Hope you are doing well. I completely understand your circumstances. Raising kids on own is tough and can leave us feeling lonely at times to share our feeling and day to day concerns . Feel Free to text me .

Yeah we can meet for a coffee . I live at Northwest though , if that’s not a problem!

[Niya]

Hi LLS

Thank you so much for the message . How are you doing? How is your daughter? 

[Niya]

Hi EmphaticallyNot

Great to hear that you are enjoying your time with kids  . Stay  happy . We are always here to bring out joy and support you through your journey . Feel free to share your concerns at any time .

Niya

[Niya]

Hi Kaylee

I was in the same situation 9 years back . My ex-husband was not interested in the child. He didn’t make any attempt to see the child since he was born or care for him . I used to cry and beg him to come and visit child . Now its been 10 years , my son lives with me . His dad has never been in the picture as he didn’t wanted to take any responsibility of the child . Me and my son  are happy buddies .

My son used to  ask me about his dad when he sees other kids with both parents . I have been honest with reasoning  about his dad but never criticised or  discuss about his wrong doings in front of my son .

Just focus on you and your child . enjoy all the moments as they grow up . Be at your best and a strong women for your daughter as a role model .

[Niya]

Thank you Helen

I contacted the West London group but there has been no response or update from the group.

[Niya]

Hi Andrew

Thank you for the reply . Sure we can meet !

[Niya]

Hi Piglet

I can understand it is not easy for you after such a long time  relationship . but things will get better and easier as life moves on . You will find your strength

and will rise like a phoenix. take it easy . don’t be hard on yourself .

[Niya]

Hi wannagohome

I completely get you . I was at this  same situation year ago and the housing market is crazy . but don’t loose hope. keep looking out on all websites . There are lot of private lenders  posting the rental properties on social media like facebook . Please have a look . Share your concerns with all the people you know. word of mouth helps a lot . Also contact the housing council in Bristol.

I was so distressed but I kept looking . Things will turn up at right time.

[Niya]

Dear Summer78

You have come at right place . all the members here are going through  the toughest phase of their life . Feel free to share your feelings. we are here to support you in every possible way . I have made really good connections from this platform.

[Niya]

I had been through similar situation . My son , whom is now 10 years old has never been with his father . His father was never interested in bringing up his son . He didn’t do anything for the little one . He wanted to be in touch, just to speak  but not supported upbringing in any way . He is out of our life now  . my son never asks about his father . we both are happy family . I brought him up on my own for the last 10 years . some people are like that . they don’t have any emotions or attachment , even with their own kids . Strange !!!.

But its always good that these people  stay away from us  , gives peace of mind and happiness.

 

[Niya]

Dear Gingerbread team

I would like to volunteer in the digital community . I would appreciate your support in order to help single parents in the community .

Kind regards

Nisha Sreevallabhan

 

• This reply was modified 1 year, 9 months ago by Gingerbread.

[Niya]

Hi Everyone 👋

Hope everyone had a good day today. Welcome Daisy!

It’s been a while here, got busy at work. This is a very good platform to make friends as we all are on the same page of life.

Anyone living in and around Harrow or north London. Would like to speak to n meet.

 

[Niya]

Hiya

I completely understand how you feel  now. Take it slowly. The situation will get better every day. Feel free to have a chat. I m based in London too

[Niya]

Hi Danni..

I too felt the same, as I am single mum to my only 10 year old. But now I enjoy time with him, just being friends with each other.

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