[NatD84]

Maybe her GP could help. There could be a number of reasons why she’s acting this way. I’m not an expert and don’t want to give the wrong advice but there’s usually an underlying reason for what you’ve described.
It in no way means you’ve failed, the mind is a tricky thing, especially when you’re a child and are not sure how to express what’s going on.
I hope you get to the bottom of it, being a single parent is never easy.

[NatD84]

I received the same message and reported it, I’ve also received a message off someone claiming to have throat cancer and is an orphan who wants me to have their fortune. Some people will go to any lengths to try and scam you 🤷🏻‍♀️

[NatD84]

It’s a horrible feeling isn’t it, when your with someone you’re also with their family and so when you separate you loose them to.

I think moving on is finally accepting that that part of your life is over and you rebuild something new that helps you and makes you happy.

It can be lonely and frightening and sometimes feel hopeless. But hopefully with time it’ll get easier.

As for invites, I was always the one that organised everything so now I have the stance of if you truly wanted that time with me you would make the effort to.
A separation can be an eye opener  for so many things in your life.

[NatD84]

They are by me aswell, and I know have the pleasure of picking my daughter up lol x

[NatD84]

Thank you, I think I’ll take you up on that x

[NatD84]

Thank you, your advice has helped x

[NatD84]

It is challenging, but I have found going to the gym helps, it’s an hour of not having to think about anything.

But you’ve obviously found a way forward which is encouraging and can’t have been easy x

[NatD84]

I have a good support system but don’t like to bother them, I’m more the helper than the helped, if that makes sense, which is why I came on here really.
Sometimes it’s easier to reach out to strangers who have experienced similar things than to speak to those closest to you. As you’ve proven with your sound advice and words of encouragement x

[NatD84]

Yeah, you’re right, I’ve always been able to pick myself up and get on with it, just takes time and patience x

[NatD84]

Happy new year to you to x

[NatD84]

Hi Busman 403, thank you for your kind words x

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