[Mysterious1]

you will get a different number every time I’m going through the court system I also volunteer at womens aid I’ve been told from 7-8-11-12 the bottom line is the older they get the more say they have .my daughter 8 still not been listened in court I’m hoping and waiting till she 11 hoping for a better stand if I was you don’t allow him to take you to court stay out of court!he will bully abuse and manipulate the system it’s got me so down .carry on with his hour contact or face something harsher

[Mysterious1]

It’s very difficult the trouble I have is also my daughter nursery is ten minutes away from school. breakfast club at the school  starts at 8 so there’s no way round it when work is supposed to start 7.30.im sorry you were left with a loan many of my exs have took money without repaying.i don’t have faith in men anymore.i guess that was my standards at the time and letting it slip.i don’t think any of the men I’ve been with loved me rather hate me for no resson

[Mysterious1]

The only thing you can do is go to court I’m sorry and the longer she is in his care the worse it will be if you want her to come back.you have to start making steps being better and proving it get everything on paper .you don’t have another option at this point.but I will say if you don’t have money ring social services see if they can intervene say you want access see if you can come to a mutual agreement I’m sorry I can’t help further.i know about courts and social from experience but your best bet is court and longer it’s left harder it is to get access.you might be offered supervision but at least you see your daughter.try and do it yourself it cost £237 for an application don’t bring a solicitor there are Ida’s workers who can help you .do your research.there is help out there you just have to look

[Mysterious1]

She’s not entitled to 15 hours I know this feeling though I don’t work 5 days I’ve got 4 children and struggling to stay in work uc have told me to put 3 kids in with a childminder when I wouldn’t make the money to financially do that I’d be worse off  the 30 hours doesn’t qualify for me .

[Mysterious1]

If it was me I wouldn’t even have this conversation your ex sounds manipulative and is saying every excuse to get things his way he either wants a relationship with your kid or he dosent .if he does he will have to put effort in!he can’t stop you moving him really unless you have a court order .so just let him know once you have moved him school

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