[mothman]

Thank you, that is really helpful. I will speak with CAB and also see if I can get in touch with the mediator too, as it’s really difficult to get hold of her (I have called her over 10 times in 3 days and her office confirm that she is working and should be taking calls – even they are confused).

Once I have the MAIM certificate I will apply to family court as this has gone on far too long.

[mothman]

If you have  any information to help with how I should go about this without attending mediation (further than I have now) that would be really useful, as it needs to stop, and I need to see my kid at least equally.

[mothman]

This is interesting. As I have been told I cannot go to court without seeking mediation first? Only the female can go straight to court?

Does anyone have any more information on this?

[mothman]

@londonerwith2 – yeah I think citizens advice are the right one for it.

I’m already seeking mediation but she hasn’t yet bothered to fill the forms in, yet I have had my first consultation already.

 

It does madden me as I know there are loads of women who would do anything for the father to be present.

 

He is 7, and means the world to me. I’ve never not been in his life.

 

To expand further, non of this is about concern for safety, care or anything. The only reason I can see is it being fully about money. Which is beyond upsetting.

[mothman]

Thanks Claire, I couldn’t find anything specific to do with my situation.

 

It could just be because I’m new to the sift and don’t know, but any guidance would be great.

[mothman]

I think in all honesty the law states that he has (unless removed for whatever reason) full rights to 50/50.

Obviously if you think this is dangerous or a risk to them, you can do something about it – but my suggestion would be to go with it, stay on the “right side” of it all and let him prove you wrong (or right, as the unfortunate case might be)

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