Hi Moreni,
Really sorry to hear of the the way your ex has been treating you.
Whatever you do please do not be controlled or manipulated into having a baby so that he won’t break up with you. If things begin in this way, they will continue in controlling unhealthy way which is not a great start for your relationship and for your baby.
I was also in the very early stages of a relationship when I realised I was pregnant and my partner at the time said he would support me and stay with me and the child. I thought long and hard about it, and spoke with friends and when I decided to go ahead with the pregnancy I did so knowing there was possibility of me being a single parent. We managed to stay together for 2 years before I became a single parent.
Have a think about what you really want, what you are ready for, what other support you have around you. Make an informed decision on what is best for you and your baby (not considering your ex) by arranging an appointment or helpline about abortion as soon as possible. Don’t be alone in this, reach out for some support from a friend that you can trust.
Best of luck with whatever you decide.
