Hi I am in exactly the same position my husband if 20 years did the same to me at the weekend. He has been distant for a few months and the overly attentive he has now said he doesn’t love me in that way anymore and has moved out.
I am completely lost and all over the place we have 2 sons 13 & 16 who also do not understand what has happened.
If you want to chat message me as I too am hoping I will wake up one day with this feeling in the pit of my stomach 😢