Hi,
thank you for the response!
I dont think i can to be honest, I have sent emails to the court they do not response, and even tried to call multiple occasions and still no luck there.
Yes you are right, I think i will be going down the CSA route, as at least then he will be forced to pay it and cannot dictate how much it will be based on how hes feeling opr if we have had a disagreement.
His mother… she’s ok.. but at the same time she enables his behaviour and doesn’t call him out on his wrong doings. I expected better from her, especially as my son was unwell. I expected her to say to his partner, ”tonight isn’t an appropriate time for you to be around my grandson is unwell” something along those lines.. but no instead she tells me she wont tell his gf to leave… so with that i saw it as this girl is more important than my sick child – her grandson.
She complains (the grandmother) a lot of the time she has to do everything while the kids are there and her son does nothing.. but yet doesn’t force him to step up.. this is what really irritates me. I just want to be rid of them, they’re all as bad as each other.
As for the kids seeing him.. I want to facilitate this in a contact centre for a while.. based on how their dad behaves.. (doesn’t spend time with the kids or is forcing the whole new partner thing) I had little trust in him anyway but now i have absolute 0. I don’t want my children to be forced into a situation where they meet his partner unprepared if that makes sense? I believe he will put them in that situation just for his own selfish reasons.. im more than happy to pay for the centre but i doubt he will agree to it.. so who knows!
