Hi niclouunarp, i totally agree. It was so hard and still is. We were still living in the same house when i found out he has another woman. The pain was awful because when i know he was around. Seeing him sitting around or doing his usual stuff gave me false hope that things might just be ok. It was so hard to let go. Memories of ‘us’ was everywhere. It was torture for me and our children because the atmosphere was different and the feeling of betrayal was so great. Emotionally it was so hard. He would openly sit there messaging or talk to the new woman . In the end , i told him to go. It is heartbreaking, but i kept telling myself i must let go. Im living in sadness whilst he is living on the high flirting and courting. I dont want my kids to suffer witnessing his selfish behaviour. Letting go is so hard, but i kept telling myself if i dont let go, will i be happy in the current situation. To help me let go he had to leave. Its like getting rid of rubbish !
It will take time, with alot of tears and dark days, but you are not alone . Time will heal . You can get through this !!
