Thankyou for taking the time to read my post and replying I do appreciate it. It’s not that it hurts as much it’s just how he always prioritised the boys but now since his new relationship it’s like their an after thought like he sticks to his days but never the times and for instance last night my eldest wanted to stay with him, he said he didn’t have clean clothes but my son could still stop at his nans even though he won’t be there, my son said that he misses his dad and I do listen to him and take the shit (sorry for the language) off him or both of them but that upsets and frustrates me that he would choose his new gf over his own children, and I know it happens but it just makes me sad. The days the boys are due to go I’m on tenderhooks it’s horrible. I have a great family and friends support network which I will forever be grateful for but it’s hard to talk to someone who’s not in this situation.
