My only thoughts are clean, fed, loved is enough and telling myself I’m good enough and not giving up. Thats what helps me anyway. My child also had a very wonky fringe for a while. I don’t feel embarrassment at least so that’s something I suppose.
I haven’t experienced what you have but I would speak to law students if they can support you for free and support you with this personally, or they have those no-win, no fees at some family lawyers.
Ah bless. Sorry to hear this. If Citizens Advice can’t help you, could you ask at the library? There are also student lawyers that sometimes work pro bono that maybe able to support you.