[GreenBottle]

Busman403 i agree. I’m not trying to exclude her. I’m just saying it is not my responsibility anymore when she sees her grandchild. It just feels really unfair when I’m trying to be accommodating and all I receive is threats and intimidation. It would be nice when I reach that point to start rebuilding 😊

[GreenBottle]

Thank you for your reply steve3334 ! I hope we avoid court as I can’t afford it. But hopefully if it comes to that they will realise the absurdity and won’t give permission.

[GreenBottle]

Thank you for your reply! I think you’re right. It won’t harm me to be flexible and attend a mediation. If anything I could get my point across. I still see no reason for it but at least it’s not something potentially harmful.
As far as my ex, I have no expectations from him to help or support. He made it clear that all he wants is to see our daughter in his own terms and he doesn’t care about me at all. Unfortunately…

[GreenBottle]

Hi, change is always hard. I was living together with my ex husband for months before he moved out, and it was the worst as the kids did not realise anything and when he finally moved out it was even harder for them. It feels like hell now but take one step at a time and you will get there. You will build your life back one brick at a time.

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