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Go on wikivorce  website. Amazing resource. Fantastic forum. Was my saving grace. All the best. Xxxx

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I don’t have any me time. Been 8 years. I also have no baby sitter to call on or anyone I trust who could watch them. I figure that one day all I will have is me time (probably within the next 10 years) and I will be lonely then without them. So I’m just doing kids now while I have this phase of life and before their childhood has past. It’s comforting to know so many of us are in the same boat. Best wishes.

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Hi I’m sorry to hear of your experience. My ex did not maintain any contact and it’s been 8 years since he left. Rather than invite any conflict or complication I’ve not tracked him down. So I’ve not been abroad since. We take our holidays in the UK. We have a lovely peaceful time. When they are older and as soon as they are old enough to travel without needing consent I have told them we will go abroad and make up for it. I don’t think kids miss out by having to wait to go abroad – I only remember a little of my own foreign holidays as a child. It was my travel in later teen years that made a big impression on me. We will enjoy our peaceful situation without the stress of trying to get consent etc and then make up for it in the future. I can’t wait to take them on adventures when the time is right. I hope you and your family can preserve your inner peace and strength. Best wishes.

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The same happened to me after 15 years with a newborn as well. Please know you will come through this and you can be strong. Sending you love. Focus on you and the children. You are your own team xx

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Just saying I’m another one who was abandoned with a baby and toddler in a long term relationship. You can’t understand it. But you can be strong. It was crazy but we have been OK and you can too. Much love to anyone expecting a baby alone or with a new baby alone. I’m glad you found this forum.

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I was also left with a newborn. I’m so sorry you are in this position. You can do it. Focus on your baby and child. You won’t understand senseless behaviour – you are right that person never really existed. You exist. Your children exist. You can be a beautiful family. Yes it’s very very hard on your own with a baby but it’s very intense and this period doesn’t last forever. They grow. Hang in there and be brave strong and patient. Much love xxx

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