Hello dear,
I will advice you bear in mind that you are not alone you have done a great job and still doing it for your loving family. This helps keeping you strong in mind. Dont stop sitting the boys down talk to them as you are helping your mum you them to become responsible individuals for future and family. or let someone talk to them and take them to any bible believing church and let the pastors speakwith them. Let’s try this and see.
Don’t give up