Totally get where you are coming from been trying to separate from my husband for the last year but due to having two children aged 8 and 11 and a house that is in both our name the process has been very hard. I have 3 children from my first marriage which was equally stressful on separation but I managed it. It’s so not like the movies where they pack their bags and walk out and I also feel lonely and isolated so if you want to talk please message me it’s a rollercoaster of emotions and questioning if your making the best decision.