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    Alonesingleparent
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    hi

     

    I’m a single mother of one from Surrey

    I know how you feel. If you’re not with your childs father anymore then he probably just moved on with himself . Some men just become heartless very quickly and we can’t do anything about it. I’m sorry if this does sound harsh but I’m only saying it because I have been through it myself.

    #107232

    Alonesingleparent
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    Hi I’m a single mother of one.

    I attend  a group course called parenting puzzle in Surrey and that’s where I found out about Gingerbread.

    This week has been overwhelming already. My child school wants to do an assessment to find out if she has autism. I told them I don’t want her to be doing assessments at this young age. I do think she does have autism though because of how she has been over the last few months at least.

    I hope I can find someone on here that knows what I’m talking about

     

    God bless

     

    #107228

    Alonesingleparent
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    Hi

    Firstly how heartless is he that he didn’t even think about his child and yes he can cut off anything that he doesn’t want to pay for anymore.  Depends on where you live but I think you can claim some type of benefits to help with Internet etc.

    I hope you know that you are doing your best to support your child. The fact that you are talking about the struggle is huge in itself. Its not easy being a single parent and I think we can all argee to that for sure.

    All the best

    #107211

    Alonesingleparent
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    I can understand how you feel, I’m a single parent with no friends and really pathetic excuse for parents. I’m punjabi, Sikh so having a official relationship with someone is a huge no . I am in a relationship but its long distance so after o drop my child off to school or after they sleep so I feel so lonely. There is no one to talk to or sit with spend time with. I have only really started to feel this lonely for a few months now even though I have been divorced for 5 years now. I have always had this empty feeling inside of me. Now I’m at the point where I’m so drained and with the help of my boyfriend and counselling, I do know how to spend time with myself comfortable but sometimes just get fed up of the fact that I am alone. How many YouTube videos or movies or eastenders can one watch after all?

    I am attending parenting puzzle. We are at week 4 now and it’s going good but I feel like I’m the only one who doesn’t have someone to fall back on. Last week all the mums had either their husbands or partners with them or waiting outside for them at the end of the session. I felt so embarrassed to be very honest. I felt like everyone has someone and I’m the only one who doesn’t.

     

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